I think the video is great,I was also straight when I was fucked in the by ass by a T-Girl and went to a second T-Girl and she fucked my ass.since then I am a transsexual man and I love I like T-Girl !
As you said, to each his own. But I’d like to point out that you can be still be a masculine man and take it up the ass from a trans girl at the same time. Getting fucked is not inherently a feminine or submissive role.