Seachant

22 years ago I became a single Papa and spent the next 8.5 years single, no dating, just work and focus on family. I have been on my own since I was very young so it was truly a single parent life.

Met someone, blended her family into ours which worked out well for our offspring and me, but unfortunately found out the hard way after a year and a half, why she had been married and divorced multiple times (I only knew of one marriage out of 3, tells you all you need to know)

So I told my offspring (boy the censor for this page is strict and making me sound so old lol)
I wouldn't date again until she was fully out of school and grown up as I didn't want her to go through that sort of pain again. I stuck to it and haven't had so much as a lunch date in 12+ years yet alone good emotional companionship, or just plain awesome sex.

Did a 2 year battle with cancer, unfortunately that is not done which makes it hard to consider being sexually active with anyone due to not liking how I feel about my health and looks now, as well as the fact that so many people are simply untrustworthy about messing around and being unsafe

(And I hate condoms which limits me even more as I choose not to put myself at further risk with my immune system, which of course keeps me trapped and alone as I really didn't keep friends during treatment.
(you find out fast when you are battling real illnesses, who really has your back)

Now the nest is empty and Papa Bear is MORE than restless lol..
Anyhow, I actually just signed up a new account so I could answer someone questions on a video, so this is a very quick "about me" will try to remember to come back and edit it.

Ps, I am trying to voice type and having some issue with the page so please do not judge me to harshly if this presents as a tough read, i simply didn't want to leave a blank profile.

Catch you on the flip side :)